Any secular ethical/moral groups out there?

You sound very much like me. Truly close friends are hard to find. I have a couple of long time ones that I can talk to but we don't live close anymore. I was married and divorced twice and then after dating a little had decided to just be alone rather than settle for less again. I did find someone though who thinks very much like I do about almost everything. I don't know how to help you though. I do understand the difficulties that you face. It is hard to be a round peg in a square society.