My mom is really ticked off at me what can i do?

My daughter and I communicate with each other that way and neither one us hear the other. We are going to start theraphy this week. I do find myself yelling at her and then she yells and that turns into an argument about something that has nothing to do with the whole ordeal. Try talking to your mom in a respectable manner and tone and see maybe she replies you. I know it'd hard being a teenager because guess what, your mom and I both used to be one. We forget sometimes but we do expect respect from our children and you expect the same from us, it;s all in the way you approach the situation, but I can tell you right now. You two have got to start communicating better or this is going to get worse. Show her some respect, does it really matter why a grown woman would put a Nemo puzzle together? Maybe its the only one she found. She did not have to say How stupid are you true enough but would it have hurt you to maybe said, "Hey mom, I don't have a place to sit, can we move your puzzle?" Respect gets respect. Try it, I hope it works