Texting / calling type of cheating?

I recently uncovered my wife having a texting and calling relationship with another guy that lasted 10 months and had extensive calling and texting every day for several hours throughout the whole day. She says we did not communicate and I was rude at times which caused her to reach out but that she did not have a ual relationship. I recently uncovered he even called my house when I was not at home in addition to the huge cell phone and text messages. I uncovered this a month ago. I have ups and downs each day yet I am still questioning things. Is it normal that after a month I still need to come home and ask my wife new questions about this every other day. I just think of new questions since I am not yet settled due to the sheer volume of calls. Is it normal that I will have this unsettled and sad feeling for a while or should I be over it by now.